Have you ever tried flirting with any guy or you felt little awkward? May be you think that you lack somewhere. Or, are you too straight forward that flirting for you is just a game and you don’t want to play this kind of game. Don’t be so fast to confess because flirting is a vital part. Though, if you are actually uncomfortable with flirting, begin with small and then keep it restrained. Everyone is not meant to be that natural flirt.

Smile has and is always a safe and simple way to start. Let your smile be simple and gentle. After then make your smile connect to your eyes. Wherever, gaze your surrounding and make slight and subtle eye contact with the man whom you find appealing and attractive. Do not stare or gaze at, but if you smile that initially make a connection. Let your gaze be casually and friendly, till he comes to talk to you.

The fact that he comes to you signifies a certain degree of interest, so you can also allow yourself to touch him a bit. Again, friendly and casual, you just want to place your hand over his, or want to brush your fingers across his forearm. Being in a noisy place can also allow you the chance of getting closer and speaking into his ear. And, this will build quite a cherished atmosphere between you two in spite of sitting in the crowd.

Flirting is no longer a taboo in the society, even girls and boys both enjoy it. Flirting is an interesting activity if done wisely. Flirting is fun, it indicates that someone is interested in you or you are interested in someone. Flirting means giving the complete attention to him/her by touching, smiling, playing, talking, making different facial expression.

While involving in flirting activity, always keep in mind that flirting should express your feelings – in a respectful, decent, polite manner. There are few body language and body behaviour which help you to know, whether other person is interested in you or not:

Body Language

• eye contact
• Dilated pupils
• Arched eyebrows
• eye movement and blinking
• toying with hair
• Smiling
• Kissing lips
• Touching the lips or teeth with tongue
• Thrusting chest or breasts outward
• copying posture
• Winking
• Crossing legs

Conversation

• Smiling
• Laughing
• Whispering
• Personal questions like relationship status

Other Behavior

• touching
• hands in hands
• nervous
• avoidance of eye contact
• Standing on one leg or shifting weight back and forth

When a female bat her eyelids at you, take a long breathe and hold herself back then simply she is not been interested in you. A deep study by an Austrian anthropologist has found that a woman cannot help a leading man on that is reported by a new scientist magazine. Professor Karl Grammar has found that women are accidentally used as courtship methods. It includes smiling and flipping their hairs and fiddling with their clothes just to take a control when they meet the strangers.

Women also keep away from sending clear refusal signals like crossing their arms to those men they found unattractive until they had judged them. Grammar, the director of the Ludwig Boltzmann Institute of Urban Ethnology in Vienna is based his findings by studying 45 pairs of male and female strangers. His team discovered that the female are often tried to attract their male partner’s attention by talking happily and giving sexual signals to them. And if they found the men unpleasant, they did not directly express any form of clear negative response. After sometime their actions imitate their feelings. Such kind of initial unconscious flirting gave time to females to evaluate the men.

The females responded negatively only at that time when men talked too much or continuously. Nevertheless, it was mostly the females who controlled the meetings and their physical action gets a direct effect on the males. Some of the simple gestures such as nodding their heads show the males talkative nature. In this way, the females can easily calculate the male talkative behavior. So guys, from the next time when you fid the gal giving you a lasting look or a appealing smile, just stop yourself and think twice as she is not at all interested in you.